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Mystical Experience

In January of 2006 I hiked to the end of Tomales Point – the northernmost point of the landmass on the western side of the San Andreas Fault.

Over the course of the 10 mile hike, on the way away from civilization, among herds of wild elk, with cliffs to the sea on either side, buffeted by LSD, sunshine, and salty wind, the hike quickly took on deeply spiritual overtones and became a “Pilgrimage.”

By the time we reached the point, I was experiencing a full-blown “mystical experience,” as all distinctions between all things dissolved.

My normal, limited perception of time, the boundaries between self and the universe, between “out there” reality and “in here” consciousness – it all was stripped away, leaving me awestruck at the infinitely connected Oneness of all things.

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mystical experiencing

It sounds hippy-dippy, I know, but it felt more real than anything I have ever experienced, and there was simply no way to deny it.

On the way back toward civilization, coming down slightly from the peak experience, I began trying to integrate this new perspective into my limited human life and outlook.

The main “take away” was about the importance and validity of Intuition – I’d previously discovered that Reason alone cannot help answer any of the truly important questions in life – but had been at a loss when trying to figure out how to proceed from there. The realization that all things were profoundly and mysteriously interconnected opened the door to all kinds of possibilities, with only one way to navigate through them – intuition, continual leaps of faith, trust in myself and in the universe.

However, this flew in the face of all I’d believed – or more precisely, disbelieved, for so long, in my formative years as a hardcore rationalist.

For years I had steeped in a nihilistic, meaning-denying atheism based in a fundamentalist hyper-rationalism, in which all faith was a crutch for weak-minded people, and spirituality was a bunch of feel-good make-believe for people unable to face their own meaningless mortality.

Powerful as the experience on Tomales Point was, the new perspective it gave me  soon came under sustained assault by my habitual well-honed skepticism and doubt. Within a week or two I found myself struggling to hold onto the meaning and beauty I had known to be True back in California.

Synchronicity

Does consciousness exist more or less locked up in the black box of the skull, or does it interact with reality directly in ways that cannot be accounted for by a narrow reductionist/materialist perspective? Was the universe really magical – or at least interconnected enough to be indistinguishable from magic?

Could intuition really be a useful compass for navigating reality?

These questions were constantly. heavily on my mind in the days following my return to my habitual life back in Minneapolis.

The week I got back from California, I went to a thrift store with my friends, where I found myself powerfully and pointlessly drawn to purchase an old aluminum teapot. I tried to figure out why I liked it, but couldn’t – but in the spirit of following my intuition as I’d vowed to do in the aftermath of my mystical experience, I bought it anyway.

One day the next week I signed the papers to buy the house I had been renting for 8 years – no longer worried about this major transition, thanks to the beliefs I had come to embrace during my mystical experience on Tomales Point.

Later that evening I suddenly decided I was going to explore the crawlspace under the back stairs – which I had never even looked into during the last 8 years – in spite of my primary passion for exploring places hidden, forgotten, and underground.

Buried in the dirt of the crawlspace beneath my house, I found a old aluminum teapot – identical to the one I’d been compelled to buy the week before.

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the two teapots

It seemed inescapable; I had asked the universe if I should believe in intuition, in, essentially, magic … and the universe had answered with a resounding “yes” – in the form of a meaningful coincidence – “synchronicity.”

Aftermath

After the teapots, I started paying a lot more attention to coincidences. I wrote down several of the stories in various places – emails, social network sites, etc – and in 2007 or so I decided to try to compile them all into one place.

Some clearly seemed like synchronicity, others like mere coincidences – most were somewhere in between – sometimes they seemed likely to be mere, random co-incidences, other times, it seemed possible or even probable that they were hints of mysterious connections.

That list of synchronicities and coincidences was the seed that this blog has sprouted from.

Once I had them compiled, I felt compelled to share them, open them up to the world, and see what might come from it (the same compulsion that led me to post the Teapot story on my urban exploration website, even though I was embarrassed to be discussing such “new-age hippie” thoughts in public).

So this blog is my exploration of synchronicity – I’ll be writing up the experiences I’ve had over the past few years, new ones as they come up – and whatever thoughts seem worth sharing on the way. Where we wind up should be interesting – stay tuned.

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Responses

  1. hey – so glad to see you are jumping into the synchronicity thing. thanks for the link to connectingstories.com.

    This is a great line: “… it was more real than anything I have ever experienced, and there was simply no way to deny it.” But then you began trying to deny it. We all do it.

    best,

    Jane

  2. Your teapot story is great! I’m reminded of the characters from *Close Encounters of the Third Kind* who kept seeing Devil’s Tower in their heads without knowing what it was, and then got confirmation of their visions when they saw it in person. I was instantly compelled by the image of the crawl space – such a tangible example of exploring the hidden nooks and crannies of existence! Looks like this Action Squad is doing plenty of that. Ralph Metzner once made a comment about something that happened to him during his first “mystical experience”: He said there was a shift in his consciousness in which he began to see himself not as a passive observer of his surroundings, but an active participant. The example he gave was of trash cans: If he were walking by a trash can, rather than merely having it make some kind of impression on his senses, it occurred to him that he could lift up the lid and see what was underneath. (He didn’t actually do this with trash cans – this was just an example to illustrate the perspective shift he’d gone through.)
    Speaking of Metzner and his explorations, it appears that you and I had the same catalyst for the type of consciousness change that can bring on these types of synchronistic experiences. The things I saw and learned at a conference in Palo Alto got me very interested in the potentials of certain transcendental medications (with which I’d had minimal experience before then), and from there, mind-blowing synchronicities started happening left and right for me. (I often don’t mention this, because a lot of people who hadn’t had first-hand experience with this sort of thing would simply assume my experiences were hallucinations brought on by brain damage!)
    After having had more synchronistic experiences than I can count, I’ve come to the conclusion that they’re essentially psychic in nature. In my opinion, when you think of someone you haven’t seen in years, and that person calls at that exact moment, it’s because on subconscious levels, you “heard” each other. It comes as no surprise to learn that Jung’s full name for synchronicity was “psychic synchronicity,” because almost every case of synchronicity that I’ve seen can be interpreted in this way. My perspective: You subconsciously knew that the teapot was in your house, and you also knew that there was an identical one at the thrift shop, so you led yourself to the places where they both were. Why you did this isn’t for me to know, but I suspect it was at least in part to prove to yourself that this stuff is real, and that the recent perspective shift you’d undergone was valid. As you said, you brought back a souvenir! May it serve as a reminder that information is nonlocal.

  3. TIMELINE

    01/15/2006 mystical experience

    01/22/2006 teapot 1 bought

    01/30/2006 teapot 2 found

  4. Awesome synchronicity………. I read it in crawlspace and I’m so grateful to have been in sync and finding your lovely story, thank you for sharing it……. I was laughing when you were talking about the mystical moment……I can really resonate with the feelings that you might have been experiencing while you were typing it (OMG people are going to be thinking “He’s lost the plot!!!”) All my friends and family think I’m a bit cukoo! It’s all good!

  5. Hello, Kindred Spirit! I love your story–all of it–your mystical experience at Tomales Point, the synchronicity (and whimsy of that!) with the teapots. I’m looking forward to reading your posts! Yes, magic is real, and fun, misty-swirly sometimes, but but down-to-earth in cowboy boots in others.

    Thanks for the duck video you posted on my blog. What a delight!

    Blessings and Beauty,
    Jane

  6. Thanks for writing. . . Consider that the “cognitive dissonance” you experience is that of someone who questions the status quo, the prevailing cultural “truths,” and ignore the labels (and guilt) that people like to assign. Synchronicities seem to be the signposts to larger experience.

  7. Carl Jung wrote, “In writing this paper I have, so to speak, made good a promise which for many years I lacked the courage to fulfill. The difficulties of the problem and its representation seemed to me too great…

    If I have now conquered my hesitation and at last come to grips with the theme it is chiefly because my experiences of the phenomenon of synchronicity have multiplied themselves over the decades.”

  8. I love the teapot story, it’s fabulous – how wonderful for you!

    I also really like your ‘down-to-earth’ approach. I too was a skeptic until around 1995, when I finally had my eyes opened. And I’m also aware that my family may well think I’m slightly nuts – but what the hell, they’re the ones missing out on one of the more exciting aspects of being alive. And I KNOW this stuff is real ;)

  9. simon here, the real name is robert. i like the teapot story. Check original synchronicity stories web site, as of 7/10, 5 out the last 16 are this guys (2%of all his stories). but point is I know Point Reyes, unfrotunately because of, well whatever, have never taken the oppurtunity altough have wanted to for a long time, to go out there to lands end, where your sorounded 340 degrees by sea water.

  10. this is so strange!!!! i just found a freaking teapot just like that! we were trying to find out the value since it was so old like early 1900’s any guesses or should i take this as a sign or a blessing of sorts

    • Wow, amazing that you found your way to this blog in your research – so yes, I’d take it as a good sign at least … they certainly seemed to be good for me, anyway. :) I don’t know that they are worth much, but if you find out let me know … especially if you learn more abotu when they were made, etc – I’d be curious of course!

  11. i got the shivers reading the teapot story. from now on, every time something unexplainable happens i’m going to say “teapots happen.”

  12. I tend to read your story of the teapots whenever I find myself wallowing in the doldrums and afterwards I always feel somehow enlightened and aware that living and life isn’t full drudgery and sorrow and pain unless we decide it is.
    So thanks for your teapots.

  13. i love this – and the synchronicity of finding two other Janes in the list of people that replied (when i was considering whether i should or not, did i have something profound to offer or not….)

    the universe gave me some Janes….

    i love the gift of synchronicity- i love the feel ing of how those moments just are like a rocket booster through life – propelling me through – giving me faith in the steps i am taking helping me to trust this wonderful life….

    your teapots will stay with me – is there a way i can follow your postings???

    jane

  14. yup – just click on one of the “subscribe” options at the bottom of the right column, and you should get an email whenever I add a new post.

    And I’m glad you commented!

  15. Dear Jane from another Jane:

    Love your phrasing: like a rocket booster through life… giving me faith!!! So true. Keep looking, keep reading. Check out my stories of synchronicity too at

    http://www.connectingstories.com

    Teapot guy and I have been doing this for quite some time… Join us!

    Jane

  16. You wrote: “For years I had steeped in a nihilistic, meaning-denying atheism based in a fundamentalist hyper-rationalism, in which all faith was a crutch for weak-minded people, and spirituality was a bunch of feel-good make-believe for people unable to face their own meaningless mortality.”

    What’s interesting to me, as a natural born spiritually oriented person, is how my experience of atheists as described here produced the same conclusion about them: that rationalism was a crutch for weak hearted people, people who could not sense a presence and intelligence at work in the world greater than their own minds or egos.

    Funny.

  17. Too much brain, too much heart, too little of either … balance is key to keep, but easy to lose it seems. In my case, I threw out the baby of spirituality with the bathwater of religion.

    (See this post for a little bit more on the dangers of hyperrationality: http://teapotshappen.wordpress.com/2009/06/24/apple-eaters-anonymous )

  18. I love it, teapots. Love it. Thank you (well, thank universe, divinity, collective unconscious . . . . . .) for discovering my page and providing links for myself and angelicboy.

    I like the layout of your blog as well. I like that the first page tells us what we’re getting into. I’m going to poke around, get some more ideas so and see if I can’t come up with a similarly tasteful and easy to navigate page for myself.

    Very, very cool.

    Sending hugs to you, stranger,
    ~Tessagirl

  19. Nice nice story! I’m reading “The spontaneous fulfillment of desire-harnessing the infinite power of coincidences” by Deepak Chopra and I just decided to search the Internet for synchronicities journal and “Teapots happen” was the first to pop. I had the shivers too when I read your story. Il bookmarked your blog! Thanks for sharing!

  20. I can’t help but comment…it appears you’re drawing Jane’s to you.

    Synchronicity gives me a rush, excites me, opens my eyes wider and wider. I love looking for what happens next.

    Thank you for sharing.

  21. Fun!
    Before you know, you ruin one, or give it away or sell the old one, or something. And, before you move out of your house, burry the other, the new one, into your crawlspace. Just to find it back in 50-or so years by you, jumping back to the first time you started out on earth.

    :-)
    You never know, isn’ t it?

    ps. I see synchronicity as a power humans share among each other. Because we are not the same, we are alike. It is why we can love each other, for instance. It makes us mate, share values, genes, whatever.


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